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[PIC][285] Me and my girlfriend...
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Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;)))
It's me and my girlfriend... :) Btw. Have you seen my new
webpage design, yet? :)
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bug schreef: > Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) Welcome back :) > It's me and my girlfriend... :) That explains why you haven't posted too much, better things to do :) > Btw. Have you seen my new webpage design, yet? :) Yep, it's cool! -- Dennis K. The best vitamin for making friends....B1.
On Sat, 25 Jan 2003 19:55:46 +0100, bug <ema...@email.com> tried to confuse everyone with this message: >[suggested font - Lucida Console, 9pt] >[285] > <snip nice pic> > > Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) These are good news! :) >It's me and my girlfriend... :) Btw. Have you seen my new >webpage design, yet? :) I'm playing with Win32 version of lynx and it looks screwy there. But it looks very cool in IE. -- |___o. GO ,--Timofei Shatrov aka Grue (grue -> mail.ru)---------. | \/ `\o URAL | WWW: http://grue3.tripod.com | | ) GREAT |Now playing: ADOM, CM01/02, Quake III | | /\ PERM '----<thou shalt obey 4-line rule!!!>------------[4*72]
On Sat, 25 Jan 2003 21:17:16 +0100, "Dennis A.A. Kaarsemaker" <fake_address@use_reply-to.invalid> wrote: >> Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) > >Welcome back :) :))) >> It's me and my girlfriend... :) > >That explains why you haven't posted too much, better things to do :) For last few wee... months - yes. But for last two weeks I was alone (and will be till Tuesday) so I had posted this picture... :) >> Btw. Have you seen my new webpage design, yet? :) > >Yep, it's cool! Thanks. :) b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
On Sat, 25 Jan 2003 22:07:06 GMT, gru...@mail.ru (Timofei Shatrov) wrote: >> Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) > >These are good news! :) Hope so... ;) >>It's me and my girlfriend... :) Btw. Have you seen my new >>webpage design, yet? :) > >I'm playing with Win32 version of lynx and it looks screwy there. But it looks >very cool in IE. But do you have any idea why it looks like shi... in LYNX? :) b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
bug schreef: >>I'm playing with Win32 version of lynx and it looks screwy there. But it looks >>very cool in IE. > But do you have any idea why it looks like shi... in LYNX? :) I suppose the win32 version of lynx runs in a console too, and since dos-consoles aren't resizable the website probably looks like sh* in it -- Dennis K. The best vitamin for making friends....B1.
On Sat, 25 Jan 2003 19:55:46 +0100, bug <ema...@email.com> wrote: > Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) Its nice to be alive :) >It's me and my girlfriend... :) Been fishing ;) Nice catch. :) >Btw. Have you seen my new webpage design, yet? :) > Visted just the other day. Like it better than the old one. Easier to find your way around. lgbeard
On Sun, 26 Jan 2003 07:18:57 -0600, lgbeard <lgb...@bullreguard.nut> wrote: >> Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) > >Its nice to be alive :) Not anymore... :((( >>It's me and my girlfriend... :) > >Been fishing ;) Nice catch. :) Not anymore... :((( >>Btw. Have you seen my new webpage design, yet? :) >> >Visted just the other day. Like it better than >the old one. Easier to find your way around. Unfortunately I couldn't make updates few days ago... For now I don't know if I want to... I'm depressed... :((( b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
"bug" wrote in message ... | >> Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) | > | >Its nice to be alive :) | | Not anymore... :((( | This is one of the saddest posts I've read in a long time. It is sad because I know exactly how you feel. I've been there myself recently. This is probably the point where I should write something encouraging, and tell you how things will get better... Hmmm... well I hope so. STM ObAscii :-(
semach.the.monkey <Sem...@NTLnospamWORLD.com> wrote: > "bug" wrote in message ... >| >> Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) >| > >| >Its nice to be alive :) >| >| Not anymore... :((( >| > > This is probably the point where I should write something encouraging, > and tell you how things will get better... _ _ __ __ (_|_) [ ) ( ] (_|_) / / \ \ | \ \___/ / | `.___,' __________________________ /--===--- _____ --==-- /| /_________________________// |________________________|/ Good luck getting through the bad times. -- Harry Mason ("hjm200.ecs@soton@ac@uk" =~ tr/@./.@/)
Maybe this can make you feel a little bit better: I love you !!!!!!!! (as an artist of course)!!! It's still that :) Don't worry be happy BoD bug wrote: > On Sun, 26 Jan 2003 07:18:57 -0600, lgbeard <lgb...@bullreguard.nut> > wrote: > > > > Made just to remind you all that I'm still alive ;))) > > > > Its nice to be alive :) > > Not anymore... :((( > > > > It's me and my girlfriend... :) > > > > Been fishing ;) Nice catch. :) > > Not anymore... :((( > > > > Btw. Have you seen my new webpage design, yet? :) > > > > > Visted just the other day. Like it better than > > the old one. Easier to find your way around. > > Unfortunately I couldn't make updates few days ago... For now I > don't know if I want to... I'm depressed... :((( > > b.
On Mon, 3 Feb 2003 14:22:38 -0000, "semach.the.monkey" <Sem...@NTLnospamWORLD.com> wrote: >| >Its nice to be alive :) >| >| Not anymore... :((( >| >This is one of the saddest posts I've read in a long time. It is sad >because I know exactly how you feel. I've been there myself recently. > >This is probably the point where I should write something encouraging, >and tell you how things will get better... > >Hmmm... well I hope so. It won't be better... You know, being with her was like touching a heaven 24/7... She was completly oposite to the girls I've been ever since, she was a... She was a perfect goddess. And I'm not talking only about her presence... I mean... That the 6 months I spend with her was the best time in my live ever. And I am sure I will never fell this again with another woman. As a matter of fact I don't wan't to. There is noone who can be compared to her... :((( I love her so much I could do everything for her... I was doing everything for her, and now... Now I'm alone and she says that this is better for us both even though be both suffer... I love her and cannot stand the pain of being without her and she suffers cause she knows she gave that pain to me... :((( Damn! I really, really LOVE her! b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
On Mon, 3 Feb 2003 18:37:19 +0100, "BoD" <Bo...@JRAF.org> wrote: >Maybe this can make you feel a little bit better: I love you !!!!!!!! >(as an artist of course)!!! It's still that :) >Don't worry be happy I won't be happy without HER anymore... :((( b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
bug wrote: > On Mon, 3 Feb 2003 14:22:38 -0000, "semach.the.monkey" > <Sem...@NTLnospamWORLD.com> wrote: > > >>| >Its nice to be alive :) >>| >>| Not anymore... :((( >>| > > >>This is one of the saddest posts I've read in a long time. It is sad >>because I know exactly how you feel. I've been there myself recently. >> >>This is probably the point where I should write something encouraging, >>and tell you how things will get better... >> >>Hmmm... well I hope so. > > > It won't be better... You know, being with her was like touching a > heaven 24/7... She was completly oposite to the girls I've been ever > since, she was a... She was a perfect goddess. And I'm not talking > only about her presence... I mean... That the 6 months I spend with > her was the best time in my live ever. And I am sure I will never fell > this again with another woman. As a matter of fact I don't wan't to. > There is noone who can be compared to her... :((( I love her so much I > could do everything for her... I was doing everything for her, and > now... Now I'm alone and she says that this is better for us both even > though be both suffer... I love her and cannot stand the pain of being > without her and she suffers cause she knows she gave that pain to > me... :((( Damn! I really, really LOVE her! > > b. > > Here's the truth. Even if you don't buy it, think about it until you at least see the point. It very, very likely *will* get better. If it doesn't get better, then she definitely was right. She sounds like quite a courageous woman. She's trying to do something good for you, even though it was painful for her, and she had to do it for herself. What you do with that opportunity is up to you. She's done her bit. See if you can come to a personal understnading of my sig line below. I could give you my run-down on it, but it's better if you work it out for yourself. Here's a hint: You say you can't be happy without her. That's demanding too much of her. Only when you can be happy alone are you fit to be with another. -- Gerald Clough clo...@texas.net "Nothing has any value unless you know you can give it up."
On Mon, 03 Feb 2003 20:57:12 -0600, Gerald Clough <clo...@texas.net> wrote: >> It won't be better... You know, being with her was like touching a >> heaven 24/7... She was completly oposite to the girls I've been ever >> since, she was a... She was a perfect goddess. And I'm not talking >> only about her presence... I mean... That the 6 months I spend with >> her was the best time in my live ever. And I am sure I will never fell >> this again with another woman. As a matter of fact I don't wan't to. >> There is noone who can be compared to her... :((( I love her so much I >> could do everything for her... I was doing everything for her, and >> now... Now I'm alone and she says that this is better for us both even >> though be both suffer... I love her and cannot stand the pain of being >> without her and she suffers cause she knows she gave that pain to >> me... :((( Damn! I really, really LOVE her! > >Here's the truth. Even if you don't buy it, think about it until you at >least see the point. > >It very, very likely *will* get better. If it doesn't get better, then >she definitely was right. Well maybe... But do you know why she did it? Let's just say that about ten months ago she was catching up with a guy (for three months) who had left her. When they were together she was blooming - almost never seen her shining like that after. When they broke up (in that point I mean when "he left her" for another woman) she was broke. In time she got better... And here I am, I showed up and gave her love, she never had before. Love that strong, that I was doing everything for her to make her life easier and happier (dishwashing, bringing her breakfast and coffe/tea to bed, huging her when she was sad, giving her "pleasure", etc.). She was... No! She is the most important thing that had happend to my life. And now she's gone... Wanna know why? Beacuse she felt bad about not being able to love as much as I loved her. In other words I loved her, she loved me, but she thought that I deserve more... Did I ask for more? No... Well and she said that she doesn't really got over the guy who left her. I mean she doesn't love him anymore, she just said that she won't be able (never) to love me the love she loved him... So... I'm in love with a girl who had left me and propably won't get back to me (never). I suffer. She suffers cause she gave me real big pain when droping me off - you know, I'm kind of a sensitive guy (seriously!). I love her and will never stop loving her... She was a gift from the skies, a gift I had lost... :((( >She sounds like quite a courageous woman. She's trying to do something >good for you, even though it was painful for her, and she had to do it >for herself. What you do with that opportunity is up to you. She's done >her bit. > >See if you can come to a personal understnading of my sig line below. I >could give you my run-down on it, but it's better if you work it out for >yourself. > >Here's a hint: You say you can't be happy without her. That's demanding >too much of her. Only when you can be happy alone are you fit to be with >another. Right now I cannot be happy without her. But that is not important. The only important thing is I want her to be happy. So if she's happy without me - OK, I'll suffer, I had suffer many times before so even though it is the biggest pain I had ever felt I will be in a strange way happy beacuse of her happines. But if she left me and won't be happy I will feel like worst. Why? Beacuse even though she didn't love me as much as I did love her, she was happy with me, she told that to me (many, many times). You know what... I'm really sad and I don't want to continue this crying about her... The only thing I can feel right now is huge pain - that's all... :((( b. -- bla...@tlen.pl ~ da....@wp.pl ~ http://www.asciipr0n.com.bug ~
bug <ema...@email.com> wrote in news:9cfv3v4j2eet4ln7ek8srh1u6i35e58fm0@ 4ax.com: > Well maybe... But do you know why she did it? Let's just say that > about ten months ago she was catching up with a guy (for three months) > who had left her. When they were together she was blooming - almost > never seen her shining like that after. When they broke up (in that > point I mean when "he left her" for another woman) she was broke. In > time she got better... And here I am, I showed up and gave her love, > she never had before. Love that strong, that I was doing everything > for her to make her life easier and happier (dishwashing, bringing her > breakfast and coffe/tea to bed, huging her when she was sad, giving > her "pleasure", etc.). She was... No! She is the most important thing > that had happend to my life. And now she's gone... Wanna know why? > Beacuse she felt bad about not being able to love as much as I loved > her. In other words I loved her, she loved me, but she thought that I > deserve more... Did I ask for more? No... Well and she said that she > doesn't really got over the guy who left her. I mean she doesn't love > him anymore, she just said that she won't be able (never) to love me > the love she loved him... So... I'm in love with a girl who had left > me and propably won't get back to me (never). I suffer. She suffers > cause she gave me real big pain when droping me off - you know, I'm > kind of a sensitive guy (seriously!). I love her and will never stop > loving her... She was a gift from the skies, a gift I had lost... :((( ALBERT's HARD-ON LOVE ADVICE ...ggNNNNNNNNQmmgaJ... +NMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMNNm. ,MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMN; dMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM#: .dw+?! `````!!?????7OCVWk! JXI?! ??uZW| ..dkZ: ..... ?jXl.. JV9MD+ .jXYTYSx..JdVY9A+. `jW9WI. JWljW$` dK! .9wJH! dl..jWWydr` jrXWM$ `db .00 jVOR.00 dS:.jXWkXb +wZMMl ?H&...J8!JH&.``.dC` +XH6db` dSX0: ??TV7!` ?XWWXV! ?dRj0: `dC ..ms. `Xk`` dB ` .dl . `UN+.Jk6` . d$. `JXl `?YYT!` .dI. JW:. .d$. dW: .`& &: . .d0. dS: . `~~UU~~! .jZ! dk+. .+r: -----------==++==--------- "First of all you were the rebound guy - those relationships rarely last. So be thankful for the good times you had and cherish those, and the fact that you both had the foresight to end it before it dragged on - dimming those happy times. Second you smoothered her. We've all made the same mistake at some time and scared off a partner with devotion exceeding their own. Live and learn restraint to be compatible to the affection of another *if* you want it to last with a less romantic person. But maybe it's better to burn bright than to fade away, just stop being selfishly unhappy and spoiling the memory of your union. Accept the consequences of your glorious and short lived unbridled passion! This is the romantic lovers lament... Actually, what the fuck do I know? This has been Albert's hot love line, signing off..." -- "Loving kindness, warm hearts and a, "Life is mostly froth and bubble, Stretched out hand of tolerance, Two things stand like stone, All the shining gifts, Kindness in another's trouble, That make peace on Earth." - tBW And courage in your own." - ALG
Advice, preaching, etc. via a newsgroup is hard to get right,
even if it's possible to get it right at all. But, let's boil
it down.
She loved some guy extravagently.
He left her.
You loved her extravagently.
She left, becaue she couldn't reciprocate, even though
you didn't ask that.
I imagine she tried, tried to see if she would come to love
you like that. Seems she couldn't find it. You know, she might
been put together differently, able to be quite comfortable
and content with a slightly lopsided love affair. Turns out
she wasn't like that.
Can't say what she's really after. There's all sorts of
folks. It might be worth considering that her previous thing
and her thing with you were kind of the reverse of each other.
From what you tell, she may well have recognized your role in
the relationship to be her role in her old relationship. That
sort of thing can be like a cloud hanging over a relationship.
I know you wouldn't ask her to have to keep one eye on that
cloud to stay with you.
It hurts - real bad. There's no real quick fix for it, but the
cold wind blowing through your guts will one day subside.
I think that about all we can do with these things is to use
them to come to a better and better relationship with
relationships.
One of those things is the realization that relationships
never end, but they do change. Her relationship with her
ex didn't end. Maybe, though, it needs to change some more.
Your relationship with her didn't end, but it sure changed.
This next part is the dangerous part, because it can lead
to false hopes and expectations, bad goals, in other words.
I don't know if it's possible, but perhaps the two of you can
talk. Not with any goal of getting back
together. Just with the idea that there's a lot that can be
learned by open sharing of thoughts. It might not be possible,
if you can't come to some reasonable acceptance that the
relationship has changed. If you can't, she'll see it and
back off from it. Really, the goal of talking together is
to make the relationship a good one, not necessarily the one
you think you want, but the one you need. She sounds caring
enough to do that for you, so long as you're not trying to
shape the relationship but trying to learn about what shape
it's supposed to take.
E-mail direct, if you want to talk about it. Or not. Relationships is
something I've done a lot of personal work on.
(The group is probably getting bored. We haven't even coughed up
an ascii-art broken heart. <g> )
--
Gerald Clough
clo...@texas.net
"Nothing has any value unless you know you can give it up."
On Tue, 04 Feb 2003 17:23:35 -0600, Gerald Clough <clo...@texas.net> wrote: > > > Advice, preaching, etc. via a newsgroup is hard to get right, > even if it's possible to get it right at all. But, let's boil > it down. > > She loved some guy extravagently. > He left her. > You loved her extravagently. > She left, becaue she couldn't reciprocate, even though > you didn't ask that. [snip] Errrrrrr...heeeee... \ I love you too Ralf / \ / `, \ + + # \ /_,/\ |/ ? /" ( | = )\ .Y___ / /__/\ \____ \(__ ,- / \_/ \ / (\ |/| / < _____ _> \ |. ||\ -|.|--/___/ ,___/___\------'-----' '-' |\/ b'ger joris
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